Funeral and What to Do
When someone dies you may need to contact the following:
- Next of kin, if not present
- Family doctor, if the person dies at home
- Funeral director, if the family is using one (the deceased may already have made arrangements)
In addition, if you are called to someone who has died unexpectedly or in unusual circumstances, the police will need to be informed. Do not touch or move anything in the room.
What happens next?
If the cause of death is clear, the doctor will issue a medical certificate and a formal notice confirming that he or she has signed the certificate. This notice gives information on how to register the death and will enable funeral arrangements to be made. If the doctor reports the death to the coroner, there may be a delay while a post-mortem or inquest is carried out. The coroner’s office will advise you on what arrangements may be made.
Registering the death.
The death will need to be registered within five days unless it has been reported to the coroner.
Further detail concerning these procedures can be found in a booklet available from the Department of Social Security.
Catholics celebrate funeral rites to offer worship and thanksgiving to God, the author of all life. We pray for the deceased and support the bereaved. The model for Catholic funerals is the Easter journey of Jesus Christ from death to resurrection. This is why we are encouraged to celebrate the funeral in three stages: prayer vigil, funeral liturgy, and committal. Funeral practice varies considerably, and the Church provides several options from which we can choose freely. There is greater flexibility and involvement possible than we sometimes imagine.
This is the principal rite celebrated between death and the funeral itself. It is the first stage of the farewell journey; its mood is one of quiet support which helps to prepare the bereaved for the final leave-taking. The Vigil or wake may be held in the home of the deceased, the funeral home, or in another suitable place, for instance a hospital chapel. It may also be celebrated in church. The body of the deceased may be present, but this is not necessary. The form of the service is a simple Liturgy of the Word of God or Evening Prayer.
This is the main celebration of the Christian community for the deceased person. It is usually celebrated in the parish church where the local community gathers for the Sunday Eucharist. Sometimes people may celebrate the Funeral Liturgy in a crematorium or cemetery chapel. Two forms are possible: a funeral Mass, (also called the Requiem Mass) or a funeral liturgy outside Mass. The Church encourages a Mass since the Eucharist remembers and celebrates Christ’s own death and resurrection. However, while the Eucharist is our central liturgy, it is not always the best option for every funeral. To celebrate a funeral without Mass is a truly valid form of Catholic worship.
The rite of committal usually follows on immediately from the funeral liturgy. This final act of leave taking is celebrated at the graveside or at the crematorium. When a body is cremated the funeral liturgy is concluded with the interring of ashes sometime afterwards. While we are encouraged to celebrate a funeral over these three stages, for a variety of good reasons this model is not always possible or appropriate to the circumstances. Many combinations of funeral rites are possible. The funeral may even comprise a single act of worship either in the cemetery chapel or crematorium.
Frequently Asked Questions
What choices can I make?
More than you think. Not only can you choose hymns but also scripture readings and prayers.
How do I plan a funeral?
Planning Guides are available which contain the choice of readings and prayers. Into Your Hands, prepared for the Bishops’ Conference, also contains helpful advice on the form of the funeral service.
Who can help me plan a funeral?
The priest, deacon, or other members of the parish community will be happy to help.
Can I have a poem or favourite song?
There are opportunities for personal choices in each of the three stages of the funeral. Secular poems and songs often fit best in the prayer vigil, but there is also an opportunity for ‘Words in Remembrance’.